Economist, author, and mom Corinne Low is not only living her best life after her marriage in December to wife Sondra Woodruff, shes also a living example of the thesis from her forthcoming book, Having It All: What Data Tells Us About Womens Lives and Getting the Most Out of Yours.Women dont need men to live their best lives, according to the Wharton professor. Related LGBTQ+ partners in polyamorous relationships are slowly winning legal recognition and rights After a failed marriage to her sons father, the economist dropped men from the data sets she used in her search for the perfect partner, a real-life result of the heteropessimism plaguing women. The term, coined in 2019, describes straight womens disappointment with the opposite sex.Low provides reams of anecdotal and statistical evidence showing that men are less mature, less educated, and less emotionally available than their female counterparts. Never Miss a Beat Subscribe to our newsletter to stay ahead of the latest LGBTQ+ political news and insights. Subscribe to our Newsletter today She also shows that even when men earn far less than their wives,their contribution to housework stays remarkably low. Unemployment can have adverse effects, too, making men with nothing to do nearly useless.In fact, womens time spent on housework actually fell after they divorced, while mens rose, indicating that men really can perform basic chores but simply elect not towhen theres someone else around to do it. For Low, having it all meant subtracting her male partner.In several ways, the gap between men and womens expectations has only widened in the last few years, with the rise of the manosphere on social media, the trad wives phenomenon, a natalist cult promoted by tech weirdos like Elon Musk, and the incel movement inspiring an anti-feminist backlash.In Low and Woodruffs housekeeping routine, meal-making and other chores for the family wont be the duty of one spouse or the other.Im not physically repulsed by men, Low joked in an interview with The Cut. Im socially and politically repulsed. Fortunately, Low says she falls somewhere around the middle of the Kinsey scale a measure of a persons sexual orientation on a continuum granting her more choices than other women.I know of few women who would say, Theres no man out there I would want to marry, Low says. Rather, these women are opting out of the options that are available in order to live their best lives.Many women are remaining single, according to the data, and making what Low describes as an evidence-based decision to pass on the current dating pool.Thats taken to extremes in some quarters, like South Koreas feminist 4B movement, which eschews any voluntary contact with men. Abandoning men, however, is not an option for most straight women, Low admits. I want them to set more boundaries, renegotiate things, reclaim their time, correct leisure inequality, she says. Not everyone needs to get divorced!But for many women, unhappiness can be traced to those data points, indicating men arent interested in a relationship that most women would term equitable. All Low can do as she has with steady stream of straight female students flocking to her office asking if they should break up with boyfriends is present them with the facts.Well, heres what the data says, she tells them.Low says the current fetishization of traditional womens roles is part of mens grieving their loss of privilege. They could eventually reach acceptance, she says.She and her wife arent waiting for that male come-to-Jesus moment, however.On a recent evening, their eight-year-old son joined them in making the dinner salad, with pickled onions hed prepared. Low says hes currently in training to be a not-useless man.Subscribe to theLGBTQ Nation newsletterand be the first to know about the latest headlines shaping LGBTQ+ communities worldwide.