These are the definition of core memories!LGBTQ+ representation in mainstream media has certainly grown over the decades, but there's a few standout moments that resonate with many people in the queer community.The MTV Video Music Awards have had countless amounts of iconic moments over the years that gay people simply can't get enough of.One moment in particular that served as a gay awakening for many was Lady Gaga's unbelievable performance of "Paparazzi" at the 2009 VMAs.Many LGBTQ+ stars walked the red carpet at this year's VMAs and spilled on their own queer awakenings, so check out all of the relatable answers below!Onya NurveRuPaul's Drag Race winner Onya Nurve always keeps it real and her gay awakening will certainly connect with many."I think when Janet Jackson's tit popped out at the Super Bowl! That's when I knew I was a true lesbian, you know what I'm saying?"DenaliFan-favorite queen Denali had the hots for Channing Tatum once he popped up on her screen."My gay awakening was She's the Man. It stars Channing Tatum and he has a shirtless scene and you see his visible V-lines."Rebecca BlackBring It On is considered cult classic for queer people around the world and Rebecca Black is no exception."Probably Eliza Dushku in Bring It On. I didn't know if I wanted to be her. I didn't know if I wanted her. It's definitely both!"Frankie GrandeFrankie Grande realized just how fruity he was when he attended one of Madonna's iconic concerts."Madonna's Blonde Ambition Tour. I was seven! Something about this feels correct. Meanwhile, now I'm here with blonde, curly locks. Thanks Madge!"Laganja EstranjaDancing diva Laganja Estranja naturally had her queer awakening when pop princess Britney Spears performed at the 2001 VMAs."Britney Spears! Any of her performances, but probably 'I'm a Slave 4 U.' Yellow python snake? That was such a moment. Brian Friedman choreography... I'll never forget it."Lexi LoveSimilar to Estranja, Lexi Love had her queer awakening thanks to Britney Spears."Attending the Britney Spears Hit Me Baby One More Time concert in fourth row!"Sam StarLet's not forget the impact Disney Channel had on many queer youth, including Drag Race finalist Sam Star."Probably the episode of The Suite Life of Zack and Cody when Jesse McCartney was the guest. They snuck in the hotel and stole his underwear! It was over, girl."Jewels SparklesSpeaking of Disney Channel, High School Musical had Jewels Sparkles swooning over the adorable characters."High School Musical. Getcha head in the game! I wanted my head in the game real bad, girl. Girl, I never wanted to be a basketball more in my life."Eric SedeoSimilar to Sparkles, Eric Sedeo was crushing on the male leads in the High School Musical franchise."I always say it's High School Musical 2. Zac Efron and Corbin Bleu... I needed them to kiss. That should have happened!"