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    U.N. Watchdog Rules That Iran Is Not Complying With Nuclear Obligations
    The decision comes as officials say they believe that Israel is preparing to launch a military attack on Iran. Tehran condemned the vote.
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    Republicans to Press Hochul, Walz and Pritzker on Immigration in Hearing
    Amid unrest in California, Republicans plan to press the governors of other blue states on their immigration policies, including on limiting cooperation with federal enforcement efforts.
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    How Pet Sounds Became the Beach Boys Masterpiece
    Brian Wilsons 1966 masterpiece is now considered a crowning achievement of music. The albums reputation grew over time.
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    Brian Wilson and Sly Stone: Pop World Builders Dogged by Darkness
    Two of musics powerful visionaries died this week. The songs they meticulously constructed offered an escape their makers struggled to realize in their own lives.
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    Feud Poisoning
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    Emma Harter and Brendan Welter
    Bride and groom were wed Friday after realizing they both had a craving for a giant vanilla cake. The post Emma Harter and Brendan Welter appeared first on The Onion.
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    Shell-Shocked Soldier Ant Has Thousand-Inch Stare
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    Theres No Such Thing As A Free Piggyback Ride
    Every entitled freeloader these days thinks they can get something for nothing. Complimentary this, state-sponsored that, just so long as theyre not the ones who end up footing the bill. Well, I hate to break it to all the bums who might wish otherwise, but in this tit-for-tat world of ours, theres no such thing as a free piggyback ride. We live in a transactional society. Sure, a man doesnt send you an invoice after hoisting you up, charging across the lawn at full gallop, and depositing you down on the ground again. But every time youre carried on a persons back and taken on a spirited romp through the backyard, someone has to pay for it. Thats simply the way things are.You may think it costs nothing, but the moment you raise your arms in the air and say Uppies, an entry is made upon the balance sheet.The plain truth of the matter is that a piggy-back ride is not something you have a God-given right to. It comes at another mans expense. Its easy enough to take it for granted when somebody squats down, looks over their shoulder, and hollers All aboard! with a great big smile. But when you get down to basic economic principles, frolicking through the park on a sunny day while clinging to someones back isnt a service that can be handed out free of charge. Sadly, most young people these days dont bother to consider the responsibility that comes with accepting a piggyback ride. Theyre too busy crying Giddyup! and squealing with delight as they are sped along without a care in the world. When the ground is rushing along beneath them and the wind is blowing through their hair, they ought to be asking what will be demanded of them in return. Its just possible theyre being taken for a ride in more ways than one.Life isnt all fun and games. Theres a price to pay each time you climb up on a big mans back and he runs with you down the beach, filling you with such joy you cant help but shout Wheeeeeeee!To be clear, Im not saying theres anything wrong with piggyback rides. Far from it. Ive enjoyed plenty in my day, especially as a kid, but the difference is I earned every last one of those rides. Unlike todays Gimme Generation, I never had any illusions that I would be the recipient of such a treat without being a good boy during a trip to the grocery store, or behaving myself at dinner when we had guests over. I paid my dues. I owed no one. I worked for my place on those backs, dammit, and I expect others to do the same.This is America. If you want to hop on a persons back and ride them around like a horsey, you must offer something up in return. It might be tickles. It might be raspberries. They might even want a piggyback ride of their own. But whatever form the bargain takes, you can be sure of one thing: that persons legs will inevitably get tired, and your debt will inevitably come due.So go ahead, if you still dont believe me. Clamber up on somebodys back. Live in that little fantasy world of yours for as long as you can. But when gravity finally loosens your grip on their shoulders and pulls you back down into the mire of debts and obligations youve created, dont say I didnt warn you.The post Theres No Such Thing As A Free Piggyback Ride appeared first on The Onion.
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    Study: More Single Millennials Settling For Parrot Who Can Dial 911
    NEW YORKShedding light on the demographic shifts that have transformed the generations relationships, a Hunter College study published Monday revealed that more single millennials were settling for a parrot who could dial 911.Were finding that an increasing number of millennials are forgoing a serious romantic partner in favor of a cockatiel or macaw who can reliably peck out a number for emergency services, said Sandra Brooks, a co-author of the study, which surveyed 12,000 Americans to determine that far more individuals born between 1981 and 1996 now saw scattering seed on their phone screen to train a parrot as their most realistic option if they wished to experience something that approached companionship. Many respondents said they were excited to finally get off the grind of dating apps, and they explained that living with a colorfully plumed tropical bird who could get an ambulance sent to their apartment was, frankly, good enough. Some female participants even felt that they were happier with a parrot than a human partner, given that such birds could trill out a little song and would never ghost them. All the better if they could also screech, Shes dying, shes dying, shes dying, to alert a neighbor.The study added that many millennials who could not easily find a parrot were also perfectly fine with a street pigeon who could mistakenly tap out 9-3-9.The post Study: More Single Millennials Settling For Parrot Who Can Dial 911 appeared first on The Onion.
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    75 photos of DC WorldPride parade that show that the Capitol is full of queer joy
    While the US is facing unprecedented attacks on the rights of the LGBTQ+ community, tens of thousands of people still hit the streets of Washington D.C. to celebrate Pride Month and make a collective statement that we are here and were not going anywhere.The DC WorldPride parade took over the nations capital on June 7, with 500 members of the Gay Mens Chorus carrying a giant rainbow flag the size of three football fields, lesbian pop star Rene Rapp riding in the parade on the back of a pickup truck, and trans Orange is the New Black actress Laverne Cox waving from a convertible. There were DJs, brass bands, elaborate floats, and members of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence blowing kiss are attendees, AP News reports.Every pride in the Capitol is exciting, but this year everything was bigger and better for WorldPride. The event brought together the community and showed the country that the LGBTQ+ community is not going to stop fighting or stop celebrating.So keep scrolling to see how the queer community celebrated WorldPride!How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene. Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene. Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene. Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene. Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene. Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country. Don't forget the first Pride was a riot. Know your Stone Wall Uprising history!Is this your first Pride? Here's 5 essential tips you need to know!Want to celebrate Pride with the whole family? Heres how!Pride is a blast but it can also be awkward! These moments are sadly, too relatable. Looking to get kinky at Pride? Heres how to find your kink scene.Pride Month is a time to let your Pride and kink flags fly. Here's how to do it safely.Looking to find a little love at Pride? Heres how to get your flirt on!There are a lot of flags flying at Pride. Heres what they all mean! Want to get busy at Pride? Heres how to play safely.How many of these Pride facts did you know? Pride is for EVERYONE! These vintage photos of Pride prove that it is, was, and will forever be about diversity! If you want to celebrate Pride Month, but youre not sure where to start, check out our Pride 2025 calendar and our lists of every Black Pride event, Dyke March and Trans Pride celebration in the country.
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    'Steven Universe' spin-off 'Lars of the Stars' is on its way here's everything we know
    The world of Steven Universe is making another triumphant return with a new series!Steven Universe was a game-changer for LGBTQ+ representation in animation during its 2013-2019 run. It gave us queer-coded aliens, gender-nonconforming characters, and canon sapphic relationships on Cartoon Network.Even after the show ended, it lived on through a 2019 TV movie and a follow-up epilogue series, Steven Universe Future. And now, we're making way for Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars. This latest follow-up series was announced as being in development during the Warner Bros. and Cartoon Network showcase at the Annecy International Animation Film Festival this week.Here's what we know so far.What is 'Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars' about? (@) The new series will follow Lars Barriga, the once-sullen donut shop teen turned pink-hued space outlaw. After being resurrected by Stevens healing powers in the original series, Lars took to the stars with a crew of misfit Gems known as the Off Colors. In the new series, the eternal teenager and his crew smuggle contraband, evade the authorities, and uncover the darkest secrets of the fallen Gem Empire.Who will appear in 'Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars'? (@) Lars and his Off Color Gems are the only confirmed characters in the upcoming series, which is still in development. Any fans itching to know whether Steven, the Gems from the original series, or any other fan favorite characters will make an appearance will just have to keep their fingers crossed for the time being.Who's behind 'Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars'? (@) Rebecca Sugar, who created Steven Universe, is back on board for Lars of the Stars. She and husband/long-time collaborator Ian Jones-Quartey have taken the helm for this new series something Jones-Quartey was thrilled to confirm via social media following the announcement.Is there a release date for 'Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars'? (@) As Steven Universe: Lars of the Stars is still in the early stages of development, we don't have a release date as of yet. But if and when it does make its way to audiences, it's expected to premiere on Prime Video.
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    Tips and tricks for edging yourself or your partner from sex experts
    There are so many exciting, sexy time activities to try. A true buffet of kinks, sex toys, positions, and role-playing options to ramp up your orgasms. But what about withholding orgasms to prolong pleasure? No matter your sexual orientation or gender identity, edging can be a fun way to enhance pleasure and extend sex.Youve may have already done this to yourself as you watch porn, but edging isnt just a solo activity, its also a way to tease your partner by withholding orgasms.To find out if edging is for you and what you should do to make it good for you and your partner, we spoke with sex experts to explain it all.What is edging?According to gay cruising app Sniffies 2024 statistics, edging is the most popular kink in America, and with good reason!Edging is the ultimate tease; its the practice of intentionally bringing yourself and/or your partner to the point right before you climax, but instead of finishing, you pause the stimulation until youve calmed down and then repeat the process before finally allowing an orgasm. Not only does this extend playtime, but it intensifies pleasure and arousal, and often lead to a more intense, longer-lasting orgasm when you are finally allowed to climax.You can edge yourself during masturbation or while having sex with other people to add a little spice to your sex life, but it can also be a great way to explore dom/sub dynamics. Both partners can edge each other, but you can also play with power dynamics where the dominant partner takes control over the submissive's orgasms and decides when they can climax. Edging can also help with premature ejaculation, and for gay men, it is also a great way for tops to manage performance so that no one finishes too early."For some, edging is a part of kinky play where power dynamics allow for orgasm denial or advanced teasing, Birna Gustafsson, an LGBTQ+ sex educator and public health advocate, tells PRIDE. Many people love edging because of the elements of control, heightened sensations, and subverting expectations of what sex should look or feel like.Where did the term come from?Also known as surfing and peaking, the term edging comes from the idea of approaching a metaphorical edge of orgasmic inevitability but stopping from you tip over the edge. Although the word itself is from Middle English, the internet and sex positive online communities helped to popularize the way people use the term today, and it has since entered the Gen Z lexicon on TikTok.How do you know if you want to try it?If youve ever finished and been like, is that all? then youd probably like edging. For people who feel like the peak of their climax is too short or want to make their sexual experiences last longer, edging is a great technique to add into your playtime repertoire. If youre curious about edging, try exploring it during solo masturbation first before trying it out with a partner. Its also great if youre in a sexual rut, exploring solo play in a new way, or curious about adding something fresh to partnered sex, Gustafsson says. It can take some people up to twenty minutes for their genitals to fully engorge and hit peak arousal, and edging offers a fun way to explore as you welcome pleasure in waves, not a flood of sensations all at once.According to Tim Lagman, a sex expert and board certified sex educator with the lube company pjur, those who already enjoy intense build-ups or teasing sensations or want to explore orgasms control and power dynamics, should give edging a try. Its a low risk, high reward way to make your sex life more interesting!Tip and Tricks for edgingTry it solo firstIf youve never played with edging before, try it on your own first. That way, youll get an idea of whether or not youd like it, then you can try it out with a partner and decide whether you like to be the giver who is in control, the receiver who relinquishes control, or both! Control your breathingTry to slow down your breathing to help you or your partner stay calm and in control. Its also a great way to focus on the sensations in your body instead of rushing into an orgasm.Communication, communication, communicationCommunication is also key with anything sex-related, but with edging, you have to be aware of your partner's body language and listen to their words so you know when they are getting close and you need to pull back before starting again.You should also talk to your partner beforehand about how they like to be edged, what techniques ramp them up the most (like fingering, oral, or penetrative sex), and what intensity is good for them.Play with tempo and timingSwitch back and forth between fast and slow movements and play with different pressure, sex positions, and techniques to make the edging experience more dynamic. You can also tease your partner with different timings. Try doing five second of fast sensation, slow down for five seconds, a then each round add five seconds to each interval until you get up to a minute before you let them finish. And if youre into a sub/dom relationship or are into power play, the dominant partner can count out loud to dial up the heat.Dont forget the lube!Lube should always be in your bedside table drawer, but when youre planning on extending the amount of time you are having sex, make sure you use lots of lube to keep it feeling good all night long.Sex toys are your friendsThere are so many you can incorporate into edging, the options are limitless! You can try teasing your partner with a blindfold, feathers, or a whip. Or add in vibrators, sex machine, strap on, butt plugs, cock ring, or prostate massager, or anything else that will ramp things up for you or your partner.Mix it upTry switching things up between using your hands, oral stimulation, powerful toys, warm and cold sensations, and internal and external stimulation. You dont need to go from zero to 60; instead, try alternating between two different sensations and cycling through different rhythms. For instance, try changing between rubbing their clit and using gentle tapping to tease your partner.Try the hands-off resetIf youve already mastered the basics, try this more advanced technique: when you feel like you or your partner are about to climax, dont slow down, just stop using your hands and sex toys completely. Spend some time breathing and let the pleasure settle in your body before you go right back to the same intensity you were using before. GooningIf you enjoy edging, consider trying gooning too which is an extreme form of edging where you masturbate for hours while watching porn, but never let yourself have an orgasm.Edging for LGBTQ+ peopleEdging is versatile, and can be adapted to work with all different kinds of bodies and can be a great way to affirm gender identity. For those experiencing gender dysphoria, edging can center sensation elsewhere in the body than just the genitals, Gustafsson explains. Using toys and tools like strap-ons, prosthetics, or powerful vibrators that send sensation through layers of material can all be a part of edging, too.Sofie Roos, a bisexual licensed sexologist and relationship therapist, has suggestions for all genders and sexualities. For queer men, she recommends combining deign with stimulation of the anus or penis through penetrative sex or using a toy like a vibrating butt plug. Or go the advanced route and focus on edging the prostate alone for an extra strong orgasm.For sapphics, use your hands, vibrator, or tongue to stimulate the clitoris by starting off with calm, light touches, before increasing the stimulation and then starting over again. She also said if you or your partners clit gets overstimulated switch to focusing on the G-spot, and unlike people with penises, you can keep going until you, your partner, or both achieve multiple orgasms. According to Roos, trans folks can use edging to explore their body sexually in new ways that feel more natural than other types of sex and can also use it to explore new sexual dynamics. For nonbinary people, she says that edging can provide the kind of control that allows for experimentation. Nonbinary folks can use edging to feel as if theyre more in control of how they get pleasure, and that they can discover their body [on] their own terms and take control over their orgasm, Roos says.Edging, truly is for everyone! Experts cited:Birna Gustafsson, an LGBTQ+ sex educator and public health advocate.Tim Lagman, a sex expert and board certified sex educator with the lube company pjur.Sofie Roos, licensed sexologist and relationship therapist & author at Passionerad.
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    Aquaria is ready to slay the competition on 'RuPaul's Drag Race All Winners'
    Bonjour!RuPaul's Drag Race fans knew Aquaria was a superstar the second she walked into the werkroom on season 10.It was a surprise to no one when she eventually took home the crown, but as shocking as it may seem, the lovable queen won the show nearly seven years ago.After All Stars 7 brought together the first group of winners to compete against each other for the first time, many fans have manifested another All Winners season in the near future... and Aquaria would love to be part of the cast."I'd love to kick Onya Nurve's ass! This one's for Jewels! I know that I could show so much more of a fun side of me. I'm literally so funny, talented, and so smart. People think I'm dumb, not so smart, beautiful... why do they think these things about me?! I'd love to show a bit of a different side," Aquaria tells PRIDE. See on Instagram The star is hoping to compete against the best of the best and has no problem sending her sisters home if that means she could win a second crown."It would have to be a non-elimination season, but if it was an elimination season... me and my lipstick... I would be sending bitches [home] left and right!"Although Aquaria loves a good competition, she also had to send a very shady congratulatory message to Onya Nurve on winning Drag Race season 17."It's such a nice switch up from all of the busted queens we've had recently! Thank God, thank Onya Nurve, and thank RuPaul!" Fans can follow Aquaria on Instagram here. To see the full interview at the OUTLOUD Music Festival, check out the video at the top of the page.
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    Love bombing 101 and how to break out of a toxic relationship
    Being swept off your feet and showered with love and praise like youre in a rom-com is many peoples dating fantasy. But what happens when the declarations of love and grand gestures are used as a manipulation tactic? Thats love bombing.Telling the difference between the exciting rush of a new relationship where its all sex and affection vs love bombing can be tricky, especially for queer folks. The U-Haul lesbian is a silly though sometimes accurate stereotype, but while the joke is funny (thank you Lea DeLaria), speed running a relationship can actually be toxic when your partner is covertly trying to control you.The term love bombing gets thrown around a lot these days, but its important to know what it is so you can look out for it in your own dating life because queer people can be more susceptible to falling for it.To break it all down, we spoke with dating and relationship experts who explained what love bombing is, why its so emotionally unhealthy, and what signs you should look out for when dating. What is love bombing?If youve ever started dating someone and been overwhelmed with excessive affection, compliments, or pressure to become exclusive quickly, you may have fallen prey to love bombing. This manipulation tactic can look like constant texting or calling, saying I love you very early in the relationship, showering you with gifts and compliments, pressuring you to commit right out of the gate, and intense affection. Making you feel as though you are emotional dependent on your partner and gaslighting you can also be part of love bombing.The reasons why people engage in this tactic will vary, but often, love bombing is used by those who have a fear of or aversion to abandonment and who want to prevent their partner from leaving, Saba Harouni Lurie, a queer licensed marriage and family therapist, tells PRIDE. It is also used as a tactic by those who consciously desire to manipulate and exert coercive control over their partner.Why is love bombing so effective?Harouni Lurie says that love bombing works so well because toxic relationships are frequently romanticized in mainstream media, which has skewed our perception of what love can look like. These over-the-top gestures, which love bombers use to manipulate and control you and the relationship trajectory, are often portrayed as signs of intense passion or love in movies and TV shows. These types of relationships look enticing in a rom-com, but in reality, if things are moving that fast, its probably love bombing.People are attracted to the 'excitement' of these dynamics and are similarly conditioned to see fast-paced, love at first sight relationships as not only normal but as evidence that the connection is more real or fated, she explains.Gay matchmaker Anthony Canapi agrees and says that when you are being love bombed, not only are you receiving the intense affection you may desire, but the chemicals in your brain make you crave more, even if its not good for you, because it mimics the feeling of true intimacy. The intense positive attention from the love bomber can temporarily increase the matchs dopamine levels, creating a pleasurable, addictive feeling, he says, so instinctively, like all addictions, it makes the match want more of the intense affection, no matter how negative or toxic the manipulation tactics are.Love bombing is toxicIts unhealthy because the person being love-bombed has been controlled and manipulated to the point that they lose their independence, and their mental and emotional well-being suffers. It becomes particularly toxic when the love bomber becomes frustrated that their partner isnt reciprocating, so they start to make them feel guilty until they show the love bomber the same kind of affection. Once satisfied, the love bomber abandons the matchs needs and reciprocation because they dont need the affection, theyre already self-satisfied, why reciprocate it back? They only come back if they need that 'narcissistic gauge filled again, says Canapi, who is also the founder & CEO of Best Man Matchmaking, a gay-run matchmaking service dedicated to helping professional LGBTQ+ singles find love.Once the love bomber has you hooked and committed to the relationship, the dynamic often changes. Your new partner may emotionally withdraw from you, gaslight or manipulate you, begin to constantly criticize you, and attempt to isolate you from your friends and family. "This push-pull cycle keeps you off balance, questioning your worth, and craving the high of the early attentionan emotional dependency thats hard to break, explains Dovie Lopez, a certified sexologist and founder of Born to Be Wild Lifestyle, which helps queer and straight women navigate intimacy, identity, love, and relationships.10 signs youre being love bombedYou should be wary if: The relationship starts intensely and suddenly. They push for a quick commitment. They try to take up all of your time. They make big promises but dont follow through. They try to sweep you off your feet with excessive affection and compliments. They try to make you feel bad if you arent reciprocating. They isolate you from your support system, but then dont respond when you reach out to them. They give you extravagant or frequent gifts. They try to convince you that you are soulmates early in the relationship. They call or text all day, and get angry when you dont respond.Love vs love bombingBut how do you tell the difference between an authentic connection that is moving a little fast and the manipulative behavior of someone who is love bombing you?There may be an intense honeymoon phase in a healthy relationship, but love bombers will overwhelm you with affection and tokens of love, and are threatened by your independence. Love bombing isnt about love; its about control. If the person you are dating is genuinely invested in your well-being, encourages you to do things that are good for you, and supports your relationships with other people in your life, then its probably a healthy relationship and not love bombing.If someone is falling in love, they show up consistently, honor your boundaries, and let the relationship grow organically, Lopez says. Love bombing feels like being swept up in a tidal wave you dont feel with the person, you feel swept away.Is love bombing more common in LGBTQ+ dating?People in the LGBTQ+ community are uniquely susceptible to love bombing because theyve often experienced rejection or trauma as a result of their identity, and so they gravitate toward people who make them feel secure in the relationship, even if that's through love bombing. They may have been living in the closet or in denial for so long that they are now seeking intense connection, which means that they may be more likely to inadvertently love bomb someone or be the victim of it. Many LGBTQ+ people are also looking for deep, passionate, emotional relationships that build quickly, so theyre more likely to overlook red flags in their quest to find connection. It also doesnt help that LGBTQ+ relationships arent talked about as openly or modeled as much in the media, so it can be tricky to know what a healthy queer relationship looks like. Because of our unique experiences as LGBTQIA+ individuals finding meaningful relationships, it can sometimes lead to intense bonding and a greater tendency towards love bombing, Canapi says, which is why its crucial to be aware of the red flags of love bombing, and to cultivate healthy relationship dynamics, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.How do you get out of a relationship if youre being love bombed?Set healthy boundaries and stick to them. End the relationship and explain that you cant be in contact (including on social media) with them right now because once the love bomber realizes they cant manipulate you anymore the relationship is likely to self destruct or finally fizzle out. Spend some time reconnecting with your normal routine. Did you used to go to brunch with friends every Sunday before you were swept up in this toxic relationship? Get back to that. You should also try to focus on hobbies and interests that bring you joy to get you back to feeling like yourself again.And dont forget to open up to someone you trust who can support you as you distance yourself from the person who love bombed you. Youve just gone through a relationship where you were receiving intense affection so leaving that behind may make you feel lost or alone. Tough emotions may come up and youll need help navigating them, so dont be afraid to reach out to friends and family who can help.Love bombing thrives in isolation, so it's important that you start spending more time with trusted friends or in environments that help you feel grounded, Canapi explains.
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    Metabolic adaptations direct cell fate during tissue regeneration
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    Seasonality dominates changes in lake-surface extent and aligns with human residence
    Nature, Published online: 11 June 2025; doi:10.1038/d41586-025-01785-7The mapping of lake surfaces globally has been constrained by the limitations of single-source satellite data. A spatio-temporal fusion approach now enables high-resolution mapping of more than 1.4 million lakes, revealing seasonality as the main factor driving changes in the spread of lake surfaces, with links between seasonality and human residence.
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    Adriana Pera Joins ProPublica as Engagement and Tips Coordinator
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    U.K. Bans Ninja Swords
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    Mel B and Eddie Murphy's child, Angel, comes out as trans
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    9 LGBTQ+ horror heroes who fill us with Pride
    Hello and welcome to the latest Creepy Kiki, PRIDEs weekly dissection of all things that go bump in the (gay) night.From the horror genres very inception, queerness has played a major role in its various manifestations, whether that meant subtextual stories of otherness, queer-coded villains, or sapphic sanguisugas.There were rare exceptions, like Countess Zaleska (Gloria Holden) in Draculas Daughter from 1936 or The Hauntings lesbian character, Theodora (Claire Bloom) in 1963, but it took quite some time for out, proud, heroic, and textually LGBTQ+ characters to emerge. Miriam Blaylock (Catherine Deneuve) in The Hunger and Angela in Sleepaway Camp are some of the earliest examples of our characters, though neither is an example of heroism. Thankfully, finding queer characters in horror today is relatively easy. Queer horror has essentially become a subgenre all its own with films like I Saw the TV Glow, Knife + Heart, and Thelma not only featuring queer characters but unpacking the anxieties and fears specific to the lived experiences of LGBTQ+ people. Some of these queer characters we love, some we love to hate, some we fear, and some we want to protect at all costs. A lucky few fill us with pride through their bravery, humanity, and depth. That being the case, to kick off this Pride month, I want to highlight and celebrate some of those queer heroes that took on the baddies, faced down fears both internal and external and triumphed. Characters that baby queerdos were introduced to from flickering screens in darkened theaters and on television, and recognized in them not only a portion of themselves, but perhaps even a vision of the future.On that note, lets get into it! Jesse Walsh in A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy's RevengeLet's kick things off with one of the most iconic queer final gays of all time, Jesse Walsh. Played by out actor Mark Patton in A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy's Revenge, Jesse faced off with the ultimate dream-inhabiting monster, Freddy Kruger, and won!While this film from 1985 never explicitly outs Jessie, any queer person watching can recognize the subtext of his struggles with identity in his friendship with Ron Grady (Robert Rusler), who he turns to for comfort night rather than his girlfriend; his anxiety over the man trying to invade his body; and, of course, the now infamous leather bar scene. All this context was confirmed to be textual by Patton: "It just became undeniable," he told BuzzFeed in 2016. "I'm lying in bed and I'm a piet and the candles are dripping and they're bending like phalluses and white wax is dripping all over. It's like I'm the center of a [...] bukkake video." Jessie was a true queer horror pioneer. Emerald Haywood in NopeIn a film about spectacle, Keke Palmer still manages to steal the show as Emerald Em Haywood in Jordan Peeles incredible film Nope.In the film, Em and her brother, OJ (Daniel Kaluuya), own a horse ranch thats been training horses for Hollywood for generations. Following their father's unexpected and bizarre death, they come to learn that hovering nearby, out of sight, is a UFO-like creature lurking and looking to feed. The siblings become hellbent on finding a way to document the creature and prove that its real. The film is brilliant for many reasons, but right near the top is Em, who swaggers onto the screen with an infectious masc charm that is effortlessly, unquestionably queer. Em is everything; shes funny, tough, and becomes a bit of an action star by the end. Shes also Keke, so of course were obsessed.Gretchen in CuckooIn Cuckoo, Gretchen (Hunter Schaefer) joins her father and step-family on a work trip to the German Alps. She witnesses women behaving strangely at the resort where theyre lodging and is later stalked by a strange, human-like woman. To top it off, she is also in the throes of grief over the loss of her mother. Gretchen could easily have been just another angsty teen stereotype, and theres certainly some of that on display particularly when she meets an attractive woman and the two attempt to run off together. Instead, all that anger and grief is channeled into bravery and, ultimately, empathy, which is where her reserves of strength are found. This is the kind of nuanced queer character we cant get enough of.Mitch in ParaNormanQueer representation came in the form of a wonderful surprise in the stop-motion animated horror film Paranorman. This film, set in Salem, Massachusetts, follows Norman, an odd kid with the gift of seeing the dead, who uses those talents and the help of his friends to take on a witchs curse and her undead minions.One of those allies is Mitch, voiced by Casey Affleck. Mitch first presents as your prototypical dumb jock; in reality, hes anything but. Over the course of the film, Mitch serves as a loyal brother and protector to the crew, whose bravery is instrumental in Norman defeating the curse. Then he tops it all off with the chillest coming out ever! While his queerness wasnt central to the plot, its inclusion in a film geared toward family watching is important. Also, the way that its handled isn't as a punchline, plot twist, or source of angst. It's just woven into the world in a normalizing and graceful way. Hey Hollywood, more of this right here, please.Deena Johnson in the Fear Street' trilogyWhen the Fear Street trilogy kicked off in 2021, it was a surprise and a delight for queer audiences that the three-part epic, spanning centuries, centered around not one but two epic love stories and how homophobia was the root cause of a hundred-year-old curse.The lesson: Dont mess with the lesbians!While both Deena and Sam snatched our hearts as the couple in the first and final film (and the alternate couple they played in the third film), its Deena Johnson, played by Kiana Madeira, who snatches a spot on our list. Why? Well, because of how heroic she is in taking on genuinely terrifying and deadly supernatural forces in an effort to save her girlfriend and, spoiler alert, she succeeds.Byron in Tammy and the T-RexWhen it comes to cult classic faves, we can't help but have a major soft spot for Tammy and the T-Rex. This absolute oddity from 1994 stars young Denise Richards and Paul Walker as ill-fated lovers whose romance comes to an end when his brain is stolen and wired into an animatronic T-Rex. Just go with it, OK. Tammy (Richards) is on a quest to rescue the brain and her boyfriend, and helping her is her gay best Byron, played by Theo Forsett. At first blush, Byron might come off as your stereotypical flamboyant gay sidekick, but in a move thats surprising for an otherwise absurd and gory B-movie, Byron gets to have a much richer and nuanced role. Not only is he the comedic heart of the film, but he is a hero in his own right. Is the characterization perfect? No, of course not, but it's also leaps and bounds ahead of the way queer folks were largely characterized in the 90s.Josh Detmer in FreakySpeaking of queer heroes in body swap movies, Josh Detmer, played by nonbinary actor Misha Osherovich, is instrumental in saving the day in Freaky.The film, which is a comedic horror take on the Freaky Friday trope, sees teenager Millie (Kathryn Newton) accidentally body-swapping with a serial killer called the Blissfield Butcher (Vince Vaughn). While he uses her body to continue his bloody reign of terror, she has to recruit her friends to try and stop them. One of whom is Josh. In previous generations, a gay sidekick character like Josh would pretty much be guaranteed body count. But here, not only does he bravely take on the killer directly, but he survives, defying the standard bury your gays trope. Jake Wheeler & Devon Evans in ChuckyFinally, our last characters are a couple! For three gloriously gory and heartwarming seasons RIP season four, Im still not over that cancellation Jake Wheeler and Devon Evans (played by Zackary Arthur and Bjornvin Arnson, respectively) went toe-to-tiny-toe with a psychopathic possessed doll, and repeatedly won the day all while falling in love in Chucky. The series tracks their relationship from inception, when they are crushing from afar, and Jake, in particular, is struggling with his identity and his family life. Through the excitement of young love and eventually the physical expression of that connection, they are, all the while, joining forces to take on a murderous foe, homophobia, the church, and eventually an evil puppet master (literally).Chucky was a special show for many reasons, but not the least of which was the beautiful gay love story at its heart. And with that, this weeks Creepy Kiki is adjourned! Ill be back with more highlights on queer horror next week. 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